But often I come into the picture when the person has passed away and I am allowed to help families in the form and content of the farewell. We will talk together about the lived life, who was he or she.
Who were important and why did these people play a major role in life. What were the passions and motives. We are talking about friendships, sports and about the cheerful and maybe other sides of life.
And together we will see who can we involve, with words, music, maybe together shaping a ritual that touches and matters . It is important that what is said about the deceased may help the next of kin a little to move on later. Which may still contain a message, something the deceased wants to give.
But above all, lovingly saying goodbye TOGETHER.